Wedding Coordination

How our coordination works

You work with two people: Casper handles planning and logistics from booking through six months out. Danyelle takes over for the final stretch and runs the actual day. Here’s what that looks like.

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Casper de Boer

proprietor

Casper started this venue with his husband in 2012. Over 300 events later, he’s learned what works and what doesn’t. He’s hands-on with planning, timeline creation, and making sure the property is dialed in. What he’s most proud of is the team of highly talented pros he’s assembled over
the years.

Wedding coordinator Danyelle Visingard

Danyelle Visingard

wedding coordinator

Danyelle has coordinated over 100 weddings at the estate since 2021. She’s extremely organized and knows the ins and outs. Her job is to handle vendor communication, timeline management, and day-of logistics so you don’t have to think about any of it.

  • So personable, talented and kind
    “Casper, Danyelle, the whole RB&E Team, and ALL the vendors they recommended were just fantastic. Planning our wedding with these folks made it so much more enjoyable! We cannot thank this team enough for making our dream day a reality!”
    — Mel & Greg
Coordination Overview

The process

1
Initial Planning

Casper sets up your online planning hub—timeline, vendor contacts, inspiration board, all in one place. He’s available by email and phone throughout the planning process.

2
Creating your timeline

We work with you to build a timeline that fits how you want your day to flow and gives vendors what they need. You’re welcome to visit the property anytime to walk through logistics or show family.

3
The Final Stretch

Six months before your wedding, Danyelle joins in. She meets with you (in person or via Zoom) to review details, address any vendor gaps, and answer questions as they arise.

4
Reception layout

A month out, we finalize your floor plan—table placement, seating assignments, and dietary needs.

5
Vendor coordination

Danyelle coordinates with all vendors—shared timeline, logistics, load-in details.

6
rehearsal

The day before, we walk through the ceremony and handle any deliveries of personal items.

Wedding Coordination is executed in-house at Roxbury Barn & Estate - a full-service wedding venue in Upstate New York
7
Day-of setup

While you’re getting ready, Danyelle sets up programs, place cards, favors, and decorations.

8
Problem-solving

We have backup plans for weather and vendor issues. Emergency kit on-site. Most problems you’ll never know about.

9
Your support system

All day, Danyelle is there to ensure you feel supported, not managed. She’s got your back so you can be fully present for every beautiful moment.

Photo Caitlin Lucy
  • Detail-oriented, patient and professional
    “Danyelle was incredibly patient and professional and navigated our colorful family with grace and efficiency. She is awesome, detail-oriented, and thought of so many things I didn’t think of myself (and I’m already Type A!)”
    — Jasmine

We’ve got your back with these planning tools

We’re here for you all year long—whether you want to swing by for a site visit or have questions. Here are some of the resources we offer to make wedding planning actually enjoyable:

Roxbury Barn & Estate's online planning platform makes organizing your wedding easy
Your Personalized Planning hub

Online platform where you, Casper, Danyelle, and Chef Leah coordinate on timeline, menu, guest list, and seating charts.

Our wedding checklist is an essential planning tool for couples to make organizing their wedding at our Catskills wedding venue easy and stress free
The Ultimate Wedding Checklist

Timeline-based checklist specific to our venue. When to book vendors, what to bring, what we handle.”

The Green List is our high quality list of recommended, talented and vetted wedding vendors
our vendor Dream team List

Curated vendor list—photographers, florists, musicians, etc. All vetted, all familiar with our venue.

The Lodging List is our curated list of the best accommodations in the area
Where everyone should stay

180 lodging options near the venue, organized by type and distance.

Photo Emily Lar
  • The most memorable, beautiful day of our lives
    “Danyelle, the venue coordinator, was kind and organized and helped tremendously leading up to and during the day. We were able to plan a perfect wedding, down to the last detail, due to the meticulous organization and experience of our host at Roxbury Barn (and the very helpful software they employ).”
    — Philip